Resilience

I recently joined a group on Facebook called The WELL (Women Empowering Learning + Leading) and each day is organized by a theme.  Sunday’s theme is resilience.  This reminded me of a drawing I made titled “Resilience”.  Prior to five years ago, I would not have considered the word resilient as a descriptor.  When I was at some of my lowest points during my getting sick and being sick phases* I did what I had to do to get through my day.  This often meant nothing (i.e. rest), to reduce my reactions, and make me somewhat functional later in the day when those I love returned home.   In talking with my psychologist at the time, she used the words resilient and strong to describe me.  I didn’t think I was either of those things.  I felt like I was hanging on by my fingernails and not being terribly successful at that.  After some thought I decided I was resilient and strong, and those words helped me when I had bad days, because I knew that I could mentally pull myself through.  (Invisible) Chronic illness is many things, and one of those is a teacher.  You learn things about yourself that you never realized (sometimes with some help), you learn what is important to you, and you learn that there are silver linings to be found in upending life as you knew it.

 

©Deann Stein Hasinoff Resilience, 2015, Digital drawing

*Selak, Joy H. and Overman, Steven S.  You Don’t Look Sick: Living Well with Invisible Chronic Illness. Demos Health, 2013.

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